Anyone on here at night. I found my dad dead.

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Anyone on here at night. I found my dad dead.

#1 Post by Angry Canine » Tue Jul 21, 2015 11:38 pm

Just this evening.
I could use some conversation to distract my head.

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#2 Post by kv » Wed Jul 22, 2015 1:24 am

Ah fuck

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#3 Post by kv » Wed Jul 22, 2015 1:25 am

That's life this is the worst part of it...man up get shit handled...dont take shit from nobody...so it goes


I like pancakes...they are grind...butter jelly syrup...powdered sugar...waffles...also epic

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#4 Post by Mescal » Wed Jul 22, 2015 1:30 am

That's pretty crazy man.

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#5 Post by Angry Canine » Wed Jul 22, 2015 1:46 am

It makes for a pretty shitty day.
I'm alone with my head. I'm already in liver failure, so I can't just get hammered.
And tomorrow I'm going to be the one who has to deal with all of the formalities, and such.

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#6 Post by Mescal » Wed Jul 22, 2015 2:32 am

I guess it makes more than just a shitty day.

Was it unexpected? Or do you want to talk about something else? You wanna talk shit about Etty?

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#7 Post by Angry Canine » Wed Jul 22, 2015 2:51 am

He'd had 2 heart attacks a about ten or more years back. He still smoked a lot, and drank beer all day. So while it's hardly unbelievable, there was nothing to indicate it was imminent.

Not good to dwell on it tonight, could use distraction. I'll have all the reality I can handle and then some tomorrow.

I haven't kept up on Etty's stupid shit.

I hadn't been paying attention to what Jane's was up to since Xiola board went down. See Navarro on TV occasionally. I've written Perry off as an artist, and Dave while working with him. Interested in what Eric's up to, and Perk, away from Perry.

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#8 Post by kv » Wed Jul 22, 2015 2:55 am

I hear pancakes r gud

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#9 Post by SR » Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:16 am

You found him? Brutal

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#10 Post by Romeo » Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:38 am

Wow, so sorry! :mad:

Here's a distraction





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#11 Post by Angry Canine » Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:45 am

Romeo wrote:Wow, so sorry! :mad:

Here's a distraction




I've seen that before. But thanks for some distraction. Have to go deal with the big reality slap here in about an hour.

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#12 Post by Matz » Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:47 am

very sorry

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#13 Post by Romeo » Wed Jul 22, 2015 7:14 am



and he strikes again...



:kiss:

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#14 Post by Hype » Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:00 am

Sorry to hear that AC.


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#15 Post by mockbee » Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:38 am

Sorry to hear, not fun stuff. Hopefully the day and the arrangements are occupying your mind and time.

If you don't have 10 hours for hype's cat video, (well worth the first 3 minutes, at least, btw) here is Maru. You can never go wrong with Maru, even if you've seen him/her a hundred times.




And if you are well familiar with Part 1, I highly recommend Part II for multiple viewings....

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#16 Post by Matz » Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:43 am

I refuse to believe there's a funnier one in that whole cat compilation than the 2:12 one... its amazing :lol:

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#17 Post by Romeo » Wed Jul 22, 2015 11:37 am

then there is always assholes


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#18 Post by tvrec » Wed Jul 22, 2015 12:22 pm

Good luck, man. It sucks to be thrust into loss without warning; it's too often the case. Best wishes to you!

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#19 Post by Bandit72 » Wed Jul 22, 2015 4:57 pm

Sorry to hear AC. No distraction but been through a similar situation over Easter time. Not to be too morbid about the whole thing but I came to the conclusion that over the next 10 years I think most of us are going to go to more funerals than weddings. A shit factor of life, but in some respects a normality. I hope you have great memories of your dad and remember him fondly. All the best to you.

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#20 Post by cricket_bows » Wed Jul 22, 2015 7:11 pm

My sincere condolences, AC. Sending strong energy your way.

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#21 Post by Pandemonium » Wed Jul 22, 2015 7:51 pm

Hey Canine, sorry to hear about your dad's passing and especially the circumstances surrounding it. Growing old and seeing off our parents is inevitably the way things go. The thing is, you still have your life to live, just need to fill it with positive people and things to get you through the rough spots.

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#22 Post by nausearockpig » Wed Jul 22, 2015 8:20 pm

sorry for your loss mate

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#23 Post by Angry Canine » Wed Jul 22, 2015 11:08 pm

I still haven't managed sleep.

Thanks for the kind words.

Maybe there was some undercurrent brewing that I didn't sense on a conscious level, that had me seeking out the people I had known online at 1% & Xiola years ago. Many, whom I met in the real world at shows. Because both of my closest friends , and my closest relative were all out of town for this.

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#24 Post by Romeo » Thu Jul 23, 2015 9:07 am

you'll always find us

We have no life :lol:

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#25 Post by nausearockpig » Thu Jul 23, 2015 9:22 am

Romeo wrote:you'll always find us

We have no life :lol:
All around the world, someone is always on here..... :-]

it's 2:22am and I'm watching (via a secure meeting) a telco upgrade some software on a piece of hardware that makes our internet go, and there's another upgrade to happen straight after this one (that's wrapping up - hopefully with no fuckups) and here I am........

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